Divorce fundamentally changes the Social Security claiming landscape, but not in the ways most people assume. Many divorced individuals believe their Social Security benefit is determined solely by their own earnings record, particularly if they haven't thought about Social Security since the divorce was finalized. For those who were married for at least ten years, this assumption is incorrect and potentially expensive.
The Social Security Act provides divorced spouses with specific claiming rights based on the ex-spouse's earnings record, independent of whether the ex-spouse is aware of the claim, has consented to it, or has filed their own benefits. These divorced spouse benefits can significantly augment the Social Security income of the lower-earning ex-spouse, who is often the person who sacrificed career advancement for family responsibilities during the marriage.
The rules governing divorced spouse benefits are specific and often misunderstood. The ten-year marriage requirement is a hard threshold. The amount available is up to 50% of the ex-spouse's full retirement age benefit, subject to reduction for early claiming. After the ex-spouse's death, the divorced spouse may be eligible for a survivor benefit equal to 100% of the deceased ex-spouse's benefit. Understanding these rules and optimizing the claiming strategy can meaningfully increase Social Security income for the rest of the divorced spouse's life.
To claim benefits on an ex-spouse's record, the marriage must have lasted at least ten years, and the claimant must currently be unmarried. The ten-year period is measured from the date of the marriage license to the date the divorce was final. If the marriage lasted nine years and eleven months, no divorced spouse benefit is available. The ten-year threshold is exact and not subject to exceptions.
The requirement to be currently unmarried applies at the time of the claim. A divorced spouse who remarries loses eligibility for divorced spouse benefits unless the subsequent marriage also ends in divorce or the subsequent spouse dies. If the subsequent marriage ends, divorced spouse benefits based on the first marriage may be reinstated.
A divorced spouse who qualifies can receive up to 50% of the ex-spouse's Primary Insurance Amount, the benefit the ex-spouse receives or would receive at their full retirement age. This 50% applies if the divorced spouse claims at their own full retirement age. Claiming before FRA permanently reduces the divorced spouse benefit, just as it would reduce the divorced spouse's own benefit.
The divorced spouse benefit is not additive to the divorced spouse's own benefit. The Social Security Administration pays the higher of the divorced spouse's own benefit or the divorced spouse benefit based on the ex-spouse's record. If the divorced spouse's own benefit is higher than 50% of the ex-spouse's PIA, their own benefit is the one that controls.
One of the most important features of the divorced spouse benefit is its independence from the ex-spouse. The divorced spouse can claim benefits based on the ex-spouse's record regardless of whether the ex-spouse has filed for their own benefits, provided the ex-spouse is at least age 62 and the divorce has been final for at least two years. The ex-spouse doesn't need to have filed, doesn't need to consent, and isn't notified when the divorced spouse claims.
The two-year rule, requiring that the divorce be final for at least two years before the divorced spouse can claim based on the ex-spouse's record even if the ex-spouse hasn't filed, was designed to prevent strategic divorces for the purpose of claiming benefits. For those whose divorce has been final for more than two years, there is no waiting period.
Claiming the divorced spouse benefit before the divorced spouse's own full retirement age permanently reduces the benefit. The reduction follows the same schedule as the regular retirement benefit: approximately 0.55% per month before FRA for the first 36 months early, and 0.42% per month for additional months. A divorced spouse who claims at 62 instead of 67 receives approximately 35% of the ex-spouse's PIA rather than 50%.
Unlike the regular Social Security benefit, there is no delayed retirement credit for divorced spouse benefits. Delaying beyond FRA does not increase the divorced spouse benefit. The benefit maxes out at 50% of the ex-spouse's PIA at the divorced spouse's FRA. For this reason, divorced spouses who can receive divorced spouse benefits have less financial incentive to delay claiming beyond their own FRA compared to individuals claiming only on their own record.
When an ex-spouse dies, the divorced spouse's claiming options change significantly. A divorced widow or widower can claim survivor benefits equal to 100% of the deceased ex-spouse's benefit, including any delayed retirement credits the ex-spouse earned up to age 70. This survivor benefit is available starting at age 60 for the divorced survivor, earlier than the standard retirement benefit eligibility at 62.
The survivor benefit is available even if the deceased ex-spouse had remarried after the divorce. The divorced survivor can claim based on the deceased ex-spouse's record without affecting the current widow or widower's survivor benefit, because divorced survivor benefits are separate from surviving spouse benefits.
The first step in claiming strategy for a divorced individual is comparing their projected own benefit to the potential divorced spouse benefit. If 50% of the ex-spouse's PIA exceeds the divorced individual's own PIA, then the divorced spouse benefit is the better choice at FRA. If the divorced individual's own benefit is larger, their own record controls and the divorced spouse benefit is irrelevant.
This comparison requires knowing both the ex-spouse's PIA and the divorced individual's own PIA. The divorced individual's own benefit is available through a My Social Security account at ssa.gov. Obtaining the ex-spouse's PIA may require contacting the Social Security Administration directly, as the ex-spouse's earnings record is not directly accessible to the divorced spouse.
Divorced individuals have specific sequencing options that married individuals do not. A divorced individual whose own benefit is larger than the divorced spouse benefit can potentially claim the divorced spouse benefit first, allowing their own benefit to grow through delayed retirement credits, then switch to their own benefit at a later age.
However, this strategy is subject to the restricted application rules, which were significantly changed by the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015. Under current rules, this sequencing strategy is only available to divorced individuals born before January 2, 1954. Those born after this date cannot restrict their application to divorced spouse benefits while allowing their own benefit to grow.
For divorced individuals whose ex-spouse is alive, the survivor benefit available after the ex-spouse's death is a significant consideration in claiming strategy. The survivor benefit of 100% of the ex-spouse's benefit (including delayed retirement credits up to 70) may exceed the divorced spouse benefit of 50% of PIA, depending on whether the ex-spouse delayed claiming.
A divorced individual who expects to outlive their ex-spouse might consider the survivor benefit as part of their long-run claiming strategy: claim divorced spouse benefits at FRA while the ex-spouse is alive, then evaluate whether to switch to the survivor benefit after the ex-spouse dies.
Laurence Kotlikoff's work on Social Security optimization, through his research and software tools like Maximize My Social Security, provides comprehensive analysis of divorced spouse claiming strategies. His research highlights that divorced individuals often leave significant lifetime Social Security income unclaimed by not being aware of divorced spouse benefits or by claiming suboptimally relative to the available strategies.
The Center on Budget and Policy Priorities has published research on Social Security benefits for divorced individuals, documenting the importance of divorced spouse and divorced survivor benefits for lower-earning ex-spouses, particularly women who left the workforce or reduced hours during the marriage. Their research shows that divorced spouse benefits provide meaningful income security for a significant population of divorced women who would otherwise have very limited Social Security income.
Many divorced individuals, particularly those who left the workforce or worked reduced hours during the marriage, are unaware that they have potential Social Security benefits based on their ex-spouse's record. The Social Security Administration doesn't proactively notify divorced individuals of their potential benefits. The responsibility for claiming is on the divorced spouse.
A subsequent marriage that also ends in divorce or in the subsequent spouse's death reinstates eligibility for benefits based on the first marriage, provided the ten-year requirement was met. Divorced individuals who have remarried and then divorced or been widowed again should reassess their Social Security options, which may include benefits from multiple ex-spouses' records.
Claiming the divorced spouse benefit without first calculating whether the divorced individual's own benefit might be larger, or might grow to be larger through delayed claiming, can produce a suboptimal lifetime income. The comparison must be made before claiming any benefit.
The divorced survivor benefit, equal to 100% of the deceased ex-spouse's benefit, is available when the ex-spouse dies. For a divorced individual whose ex-spouse has a significantly larger Social Security benefit and may predecease them, the survivor benefit may eventually exceed the divorced spouse benefit, making the long-run claiming strategy different from the immediate claiming strategy.
This is the foundational question that determines whether divorced spouse benefits are relevant and how they compare.
The comparison of divorced spouse benefit at FRA to own benefit delayed to 70 may reveal a sequencing opportunity.
This tests eligibility for the restricted application strategy that is available only to the older cohort.
Modeling the survivor scenario ensures that the long-run claiming strategy accounts for both the divorced spouse benefit period and the potential survivor benefit period.
A divorced individual eligible for benefits based on multiple ex-spouses' records can claim the largest benefit available among all of them.
The retirement planning calculator at plan.johnkoyle.com was built to model exactly the dynamics discussed in this paper. The Social Security input in the retirement calculator at plan.johnkoyle.com allows you to enter any Social Security benefit amount, including the divorced spouse benefit from your ex-spouse's record. Enter the higher of your own projected benefit or the divorced spouse benefit to model the correct income in the retirement projection. If you're uncertain which is higher or what the divorced spouse benefit amount would be, contact the Social Security Administration directly or work with your advisor to obtain the comparison before finalizing the income input in the calculator.
John Koyle, AIF®, is the Co-Founder of Red Cedar Wealth Advisors, headquartered in Pocatello, Idaho. He holds the Accredited Investment Fiduciary (AIF®) designation, awarded by the Center for Fiduciary Studies (Fi360), which signifies completed coursework, a rigorous examination, and ongoing continuing education in fiduciary responsibility and prudent investment practices.
John serves individuals and families in or approaching retirement throughout eastern Idaho, the Pacific Northwest, and across the country via Zoom. Clients work directly with John, not a junior team. Red Cedar Wealth Advisors operates under Osaic Wealth, Inc. (Member FINRA/SIPC) and Osaic Advisory Services, LLC for investment advisory services.
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